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Afghanistan II Separated by War

Leilomar, 30, is a housewife. Her husband, Nasar Mohamed, 32, is a professional painter. They married when Nasar Mohamed was 18 years old and now have four daughters. They live in Jordak in northern Afghanistan.
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How did you meet?

Nasar Mohamed: I had fallen in love with Leilomar and followed her on the way to school for years. I tried to attract her attention for four years, but she never noticed. Whenever I spoke to her, she always turned away. I tried everything to make her notice me. That's why I always opened an umbrella when I was near her, regardless of what the weather was like. We're related to each other. When I was 18, I went to my family and said that I would like to marry Leilomar. Leilomar's parents immediately approved because they're very pious and were afraid she might commit a sin.

Leilomar: It never occured to me that he would want to marry me. When my parents accepted his proposal, I was in agreement.

What do you love about him / her?

Leilomar: After the marriage I found out what a good person Nasar Mohamed is and that I can trust him. And so our relationship became more warm-hearted.

Nasar Mohamed: My wife is the treasure of my life. I love that we are so honest with each other.

What does love mean for you?

To us, love means faithfulness and a good relationship within the family.

What was the longest time that you were separated from one another?

Leilomar: After the wedding, Nasar Mohamed fought with the mujahideen in the war for one year.

Nasar Mohamed: I've been through a lot of wars.

What do you wish for?

That our life and our love for each stay the way they are now. And a son.