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Senegal "When He Asked, I Was Very Surprised"

Sekou, 37, and his wife Aïcha, 31, are both teachers. They married in 1999 and have two children.
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How did you meet?

Sekou: The other wife of Aïcha's father is my aunt. We got to know each other when I was a university student and Aïcha still went to school.

Aïcha: When Sekou asked me one day if I wanted to become his wife, I was very surprised. We had never gone out together before – we were just friends. I thought about it for a few weeks and finally said yes.

What do you love about him / her?

Aïcha: His open heartedness and the fact that he doesn't avoid problems, but takes responsibility.

Sekou: Aïcha is natural. She's not superficial like so many other women.

What does love mean to you?

Sekou: Love means passion, but as with everything else, there are limits and rules that you have to observe.

Aïcha: To me, love means tolerance. You can forgive someone you love for something you wouldn't tolerate in others.

What was the longest time you were separated from one another?

Sekou: I worked in Ziguinchor for five years – that's an eight-hour drive from Dakar. During this time, we didn't see each other for as long eight months.

What do you wish for?

Sekou: Our own business…

Aïcha: … and a big house of our own. And of course we want to see our children grow up happy.

Sekou: We would also like to travel.

Aïcha: Yes, outside of Africa – to Europe or America.