It was, of course, Sting who brought the line "if you love somebody, set them free" onto the pop charts. Now, according to a new article in New York magazine, an increasing number of couples are trying to bring the concept into the bedroom.   Even as monogamy remains the ultimate goal for most relationships, more and more couples are deciding that the good old fashioned "closed relationship" isn't all that great after all. In order to spice up their sex lives, they are allowing each other to venture a bit further afield. And, after reading the article, be sure not to miss the glossary of sex lifestyles  attached.

Spying on New Yorkers

Eavesdropping, as we all know, is rude. Not only that, but those who make a habit of it are generally thought to be freaks or voyeurs. But it's also great fun. Which is why the Web site overheardinnewyork.com  is such a success. Everyday, you can drop by for brief snippets of dialogue on topics from the inane to insane. The best part about it is that you too can help out -- all you have to do is wander around New York with your ears wide open. Be warned, this site isn't for the faint of heart. But then again, neither is New York.